The idea of
marriage is one man finding one woman, with whom to share himself with. Simple.
You are expected to have and remain with one partner for the rest of your life,
come-what-may.
I heard the story of a woman who was married to a man. Then
he died and left her with 2 children and 3 companies.
After a few months, she
was stressed out, and at the point of having a mental breakdown. Then a young
man came in and said that he was God and that he wanted to marry her. Now she
wasn’t a Christian, so she said “ok”. Within a few weeks, they were married.
Then in a few months, his real self came out. He could levitate tables, leave
his body at night, he even threatened to kill her many times and he locked the
children in the basement and told them to never come out except at his word. Then
she got born again. One day the children were trying to escape when he caught
them and as he was trying to kill them, the police came and separated them.
They sent them to a pastor then to a marriage counsellor. The pastor said well
if he maltreats you and you are no longer pleased to dwell with him, you can
leave, but, you can choose to stay. Then she said, I love him, so I’ll stay.
Then they went to a marriage counsellor, and he asked the man for his side of
the story. Then the man said, this woman levitates tables, leaves her body at
night and has even threatened to kill me many times. Then the marriage
counsellor stood up immediately and started railing curses at the woman. Then
after about 5 minutes of madness, she managed to calm him down, and then told
her own side of the story. She said
“everything he has said is true, and I’m sorry”. That was all she said. When
they got into the car, the man said to her, “why didn’t you defend yourself”. Then she replied “I’ve
already been changed on the inside by God, so now it’s your turn to get changed
and if it means that you will change when you rail at me, i don’t mind.”
Well guess what, within 3 weeks, the man left the house.
Within a year he was back and he was born again. The last time I heard of them,
I heard they were having troubles because the man wanted to go to RHEMA bible
institute to train to be a pastor, and she didn’t want him to go, because she
didn’t want to be a preachers’ wife.
The problem is that every one wants to have their way in
marriage. Every one wants to be right. Well if you want to right all the time,
I suggest you remain single. Someone said people enter into marriage with
chisels and hammers because one spouse wants to make the other one into what he
wants him to be. So brethren, YOUR SPOUSE IS AN INDIVIDUAL PERSON WITH A MIND
OF HIS OWN AND RESERVES THE RIGHT TO BE DIFFERENT. Learn to live with that.
PROPHET
SAM ABUA
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